Making Yourself Charming

I had a client this week who surprised me --- a successful entrepreneur who is confessed he is terrified every time he walks into a room filled with strangers.   Despite his resounding success, he told me he got clammy hands and feared he wouldn’t have anything to say to anyone.  He asked me to help “fix” him so we started with the basics … what were the signals his body was sending out before he even opened his mouth?   Yes, it all gets back to our body language.   While we have been walking on earth for millions of years, we have had a spoken language for about 160,000 years.  We still rely on what our bodies say versus our mouths every day, and especially when meeting someone new.  Judgements are instantaneous --- BEFORE you speak.  That’s why smiles, eye contact, good posture are more important than ever.   And it takes so little to do it. Hence my sharing of this article – which not only mirrors some of what I teach, but has research and data to back it up

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